A life shattered: 143rd New York Lt. Edward Carrington

Edward Carrington's toppled gravestone in Center Cemetery in rural Colebrook, Conn.

Carrington was only 27 when he died on March 6, 1865, a little more than a month
 before Lee surrendered to Grant.

Toppled and broken into three pieces, Edward Carrington's marble gravestone lay in the grass, apparently a demise by natural causes. Harsh Connecticut winters and gravity were the culprits, a caretaker of Center Cemetery in rural Colebrook told me Saturday morning. Although the stone won't be fixed by Memorial Day, he assured me it would be repaired.

A lieutenant in the 143rd New York,
 Edward Carrington was an 1859 graduate of Yale.
(Photo: Colebrook Historical Society)

A lieutenant in the 143rd New York, Carrington survived battles at Chancellorsville, Gettysburg, the Wilderness and Kennesaw Mountain only to die in an obscure scrap while on detached duty at the Battle of Natural Bridge in St. Marks, Fla., a little more than a month before the Civil War officially ended. The Rebel bullet that killed him on March 6, 1865, tore through the front of his small uniform jacket, ripped through his liver and exited through the back. He was only 27.

Born in Hartford on Feb. 15, 1838, Edward was the son of Sarah Ann and Edward Carrington Sr., who moved to Colebrook when their son was young. A brilliant man, Carrington graduated in 1859 from Yale, where he was class valedictorian, and earned a law degree from Columbia, graduating in 1861 with highest honors. "Although I
have familiarly known many thousands of young men coming from all parts of the
country," a Columbia professor wrote, "I have never been acquainted with one who has so much impressed me by his native gifts as he." (Hat tip: Bob Grigg.)

When war broke out, Carrington was working as a lawyer in New York. After the death of his former Yale classmate, Lieutenant Deiday Hannas of the 6th New York Cavalry, on Sept. 10, 1862, Carrington was especially motivated to join the Union army. He enlisted as a 2nd lieutenant on Oct. 27, 1862. At Kennesaw Mountain in the summer of 1864, every soldier on the commanding general's staff was wounded -- except for Carrington, whose luck ran out in the spring of 1865.

"But in the advance upon St. Mark's, he was, as always, in his place, at the post of danger, and death, that 'loves a shining mark,' sought him there and laid him low," the New York Times noted in an obituary published March 27, 1865. "His only brother is Adjutant in a colored regiment in the Army of the Potomac. May Heaven heal the bitter wound caused by the death of the one, and spare their many friends the pain of the fall of the other."

The uniform jacket that Edward Carrington wore the day he died, with bullet
 entry wound at bottom left, is in the vault of the Colebrook (Conn.) Historical Society.

Close-ups of where the bullet that killed Edward Carrington entered  (left) 
and exited his uniform jacket.

Antietam: Captain Jarvis Blinn's restored gravestone

Flowers placed by the grave of 14th Connecticut Captain Jarvis Blinn, who
 was killed at the Battle of Antietam.

Nearly 152 years after a bullet tore through Jarvis Blinn's heart and killed him, the 14th Connecticut captain's descendants, re-enactors and Civil War enthusiasts gathered under leaden skies Saturday afternoon to honor him at his restored tombstone in Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn. Sparked by this February 2013 post on my blog that included images of Blinn's broken tombstone, a 14th Connecticut re-enacting group sought donations from Civil War groups, Blinn descendants and others to repair it.  A low bid of  $1,050 was submitted by Nelson Architectural Restoration's Randall Nelson, who repaired the marker recently and may be seen below in the video that I shot at Blinn's gravestone.

A 26-year-old mechanic from New Britain, Conn., Blinn was killed at the Battle of Antietam on Sept. 17, 1862 -- 152 years ago Wednesday.  "I am a dead man!" the officer said moments after he was shot near Bloody Lane. (See my interactive panorama here of where the 14th Connecticut attacked.)  A Mason and the first officer in his regiment to die, Blinn left behind wife, Alice, and two young children. 

"His wife is heart-broken," a woman who attended Blinn's funeral service noted. "Their attachment to each other was unbounded -- he was all to her. Such a sad, hopeless, despairing countenance I never saw. There are two children -- dear little creatures the eldest five years of age -- for them only his memory lives."

Hal Gilbert, Blinn's great-great nephew, and his daughter, Mary, pose at their ancestor's
 grave at  Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn. Hal, whose father was named after 
Jarvis,  holds an original albumen  image of Blinn, a well-liked soldier who was 
unanimously selected captain of Company F on Aug. 15, 1862.

A close-up of the albumen of 14th Connecticut Captain Jarvis Blinn, who was
 only 26 when he was killed.

During the ceremony at Blinn's grave, a re-enactor sang The Vacant Chair,  a Civil War song.

14th Connecticut re-enactors fire a salute near Jarvis Blinn's grave.

Jarvis Blinn's descendants and re-enactors gather near Blinn's grave.

A close-up of Blinn's repaired gravestone.

Antietam: Jarvis Blinn gravestone may be repaired soon

The top 3/4 of Jarvis Blinn's gravestone remained behind the base when I visited
Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn., on Saturday.

It appears that the gravestone of Jarvis Blinn, a captain who was killed at the Battle of Antietam, will soon be repaired. On Saturday, I spoke with a Blinn descendant, who was unaware the gravestone at Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn., had been in a state of disrepair for at least six months. When the weather turns warmer, he plans to marry the toppled 3/4 of the gravestone to the bottom portion, which includes a carving of the word "Antietam." I hope to be there the day it is repaired. Blinn, who served in the 14th Connecticut, was shot through the heart near the William Roulette farmhouse. "I am a dead man!" he said moments after he received the wound.

The base of Blinn's broken tombstone on Saturday.

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Antietam: Connecticut captain's gravestone still in disrepair

 14th Connecticut captain Jarvis Blinn's gravestone remains in the same state of disrepair today ...

...as it was when I visited Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn., in September.

Jarvin Blinn's repaired gravestone in November 2011.  Blinn was 
killed at Antietam.  (Blinn photo: Rocky Hill Historical Society)

On Sept. 12, 2012, five days before the 150th anniversary of the Battle of Antietam, I visited the grave of Captain Jarvis Blinn of the 14th Connecticut at Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn. Sadly, the gravestone of the 26-year-old soldier who was killed at Antietam was broken, the top 3/4 of the stone resting in the grass behind the base. On the way to a research appointment this afternoon, I paid another visit to Blinn's grave, trudging through a foot of snow that still remains from a recent blizzard. Five months later, the gravestone remains in the same state of disrepair. Blinn's death shattered his two children and his wife, Alice. "His wife is heart-broken," Augusta Griswold wrote to her fiance, John Morris, a chaplain in the 8th Connecticut. "Their attachment to each other was unbounded -- he was all to her. Such a sad, hopeless, despairing countenance I never saw." (1) I'll investigate what the cemetery plans to do, if anything, to repair the gravestone.

(1) Letter from Augusta Griswold to John Morris, Oct. 19, 1862

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Antietam: Shattered family, broken tombstone

Killed at the Battle of Antietam, Captain Jarvis Blinn of the 14th Connecticut is buried in
Center Cemetery in Rocky Hill, Conn. His repaired gravestone was upright in this photo
I shot in November. (Blinn photo courtesy of Rocky Hill Historical Society)

In its terrible wake, the Civil War left behind broken dreams and hundreds of thousands of shattered families, including the Blinns of New Britain, Conn.

A 26-year-old captain in the 14th Connecticut, Jarvis Blinn was killed at the Battle of Antietam on Sept. 17, 1862, proclaiming "I am a dead man!" moments after he was shot in the heart on the Samuel Mumma or William Roulette farm. A mechanic before the war, Blinn left behind a wife, Alice, and two young children.

Two days after the battle, while gathered in a camp near Sharpsburg, Md., officers of the 14th Connecticut passed four resolutions to honor Blinn and Samuel Williard, a captain from Madison, who also was killed at Antietam. Published in the Hartford Courant and New Haven Register, the resolutions included this acknowledgement of the awful loss for the families of the dead men, both of whom were well-regarded by their peers.

After a funeral service in New Britain, where Blinn resided, 
another service was held for the captain at the
 Congregational Church in Rocky Hill, where he was born. 
Afterward, he was buried in nearby Center Cemetery. 
The church was built in 1808.

"Resolved. That we tender our my earnest sympathy to the bereaved families who are thrown into sudden mourning by this loss, and pray God to sustain and comfort the wives made widows, and the children made fatherless, and to grant that this and all other sacrifices now offered upon the altar of our beloved country may not be in vain." (1)

For Alice Blinn, the death of her husband hit home especially hard. In a letter to her fiance, 8th Connecticut chaplain John Morris, 19-year-old Augusta Griswold of Wethersfield described the "sad ceremonies" held Oct. 14, 1862, for Blinn in nearby Rocky Hill and the effect of his death on his wife.

"He was a much esteemed resident of New Britain," she wrote. "Funeral services were first conducted in the Center Church there from thence he was brought to the church in Rocky Hill attended by citizens, Free Masons and representatives of several military companies -- a large procession. His wife is heart-broken. Their attachment to each other was unbounded -- he was all to her. Such a sad, hopeless, despairing countenance I never saw.

"There are two children -- dear little creatures the eldest five years of age -- for them only his memory lives." (2)

Sadly, only five days before the 150th anniversary of his death, Jarvis Blinn is dishonored at Rocky Hill's Center Cemetery, where he was buried. His tombstone is broken, the top portion lying in the grass just behind the base. Visible on the bottom portion are these weather-worn words:

Sept. 17, 1862
Antietam

(1) Hartford Courant, Sept. 27, 1862, Page 2
(2) Letter from Augusta Griswold to John Morris, Oct. 19, 1862.

Today, the top portion of  Jarvis Blinn's tombstone lies in the grass behind the base.